My little children, let us not
love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth.
1 John 3:18
Sometimes the truth hurts. We will go to great lengths not to offend
someone and sometimes we go too far. Truth applied with love is
beneficial and although it may sting, it will quickly heal and reap much
more benefit than harm in the end. It is much easier to pacify someone
and remain in their good graces, but this compromise causes us no longer
to be true to ourselves or the other person. Relationships, no matter
what kind, must be based upon truth and honesty. When its not, it can
most certainly cause a stain on the best of relationships. We must live
every part of our lives according to the truth of God's word. What a
disservice to allow those whom we love to be deceived. Our motivation
should always be love and assisting others, as their relationship with
God flourishes, not condemning and finger pointing. Love must be our
motivation in all things. Not only should we speak the truth in love,
but also be able to receive it in love.
Prayer
Lord help us to always be true to ourselves and others. Holy Spirit give
us wisdom and words of love and truth to share, we desire to grow and
become rooted and grounded firmly in Your truth. Help us to be honest
and to speak and receive Your truth in love. Amen.
